Need of new love

I'm in a tough situation . I have two men in my life . Two men that i care a lot about each . But at the same time its not really working out with either . I know it would be alot better if i got rid of both .However I have no idea how i want to do that .I want to go into the new year fresh looking for new love not holding and hoping for old love that didn't work last year . So why would it work this year . I have to figure out what to do .How do you let go when your realize love isn't always enough ?